Facebook.
Have I mentioned how much I abhor Facebook? Because I do. I really, really, really do. I used to love it. I lived for it. I lived on it. Everyone in my life, whether they wanted to or not, knew when and what I ate, how my day was going, what pissed me off at any given moment, what made me happy, what time I dropped a deuce, and every other little thing in between. It was ridiculous. I tried slowing down and not posting very often–but that didn’t work. I found myself posting three pages worth of status because I had to catch up on what I missed by not posting. Holy fuck batman–who has time for that?!!! Ok, well I do/did, but I didn’t want to.
So I had to go cold turkey. I was afraid. I didn’t know if I could live without it. Would I miss everyone, would they miss me? How would I keep in touch?! I was so conflicted. Then my dog died. WTF does that have to do with facebook you ask? Welllll……….let me tell you!
When something happens in your life that is not good/tragic/dramatic/sad/painful/whatever, you find out who your friends are. (Pardon me a moment while I sing a song now–Tracy Lawrence “Find out who your friends are” ) Ok, sorry. I am back. I tend to be a random singer–especially if something I say or hear is an actual line from a song I know. I’m kind of a nerd that way.
ANYHOOO—so when my dog was diagnosed with metastatic lymph node cancer, I told my people. Why? I don’t know. To update them on my life? To get sympathy? Attention? No clue. BUT, I definitely found out who gave a shit and who didn’t. And I was not a fan of those numbers. I had 173 people on my friends list. ALL OF WHOM I knew in person. I was a stickler for that. I wasn’t a fan of strangers knowing my business (unlike now..hahaha). Out of all those people, only five, FIVE gave a fuck about what I was going through. Yeah……..NOT a fan.
So I quit. I quite FB cold turkey. I downloaded all my shit (hundreds of pics) and dropped it all on a thumb drive. Then I deleted my page. And by deleted, I mean I contacted the FB people, and told them I wanted my entire page wiped off the face of the earth. It took a few days, but away it went.
I was sure I was going to have withdrawals, have to seek help–maybe a program? FBA? But surprisingly, I didn’t miss it. Don’t get me wrong, it kind of sucked not being able to keep up with my families adventures–but I figured if they really wanted me to know something, they knew my email/phone/etc.
Sadly, nobody even noticed really. It took my sister THREE months!!! THREE MONTHS to notice I was gone. RUDE! And the others that noticed, kind of popped up here and there over the course of six months.
Ok, so now that you have heard my sad little story, the whole point of this post is that I had to recreate (killmenow) a FB page to be able to promote the stuff I am trying to do. I have to (killmenow) utilize the evil entity that is social media, and I must say, I HATE EVERY FUCKING MINUTE OF IT!!!!!!!
There has to be a better way………….